JUST A BUGGING THOUGHT

I have been constantly reminded,

"No sex before marriage..... u need to remain pure and save urself for your patner! It is what is right and what God commands!"

But what if i dont want to get married huh? Do i still have to adhere to this?

What if all the dreams about having a wedding and having a handsome husband have been kicked out of the door by watching how the society treats the institution of marriage?

Or how I have seen other families function:

a man has a wife and kids.... cheats on her and runs off with the 'clande; and goes ahead to have kids with her....

then I dont know on what logic he bases his actions on but he refuses to provide for his first wife's kids!!

Y is that? huh? What does he think? that they are not worth it?

He lavishes his 'illegal' family with everything that they need while the latter has to beg him to even pay school fees and provide food for his children...he becomes angry when called and does not want anything to do with them.....


I really really ...dont understand how one gets so cold on his on flesh and blood and he is the one who 'sinned' by committing adultery.....

oh God,.... I shall never understand the heart of a man...and as ur word says....the Heart of a man is deceiving...... welll I have personally seen this!

And i dont get it at all!!!



The 1st wife has learnt to let sleeping dogs lie............never calling him for anything even when she is overwhelmed with needs and debts...she always finds a way out.... she says that she will make it through

thanks to the strength of the woman in the 1st wife..... her kids have gone to the best schools.......

they managed to turn into goood,honest people who take life one step at a time and grab the bull by its horns because they know the hardship they experienced growing up....

and thats how her kids grow up...being strong people who dont easily break.... they bend but never break..because they always remember that they have been in worse times and they got through it!!!


So ..... yeah.... i still dont get marriage; how two people who loved each other so and vowed to stay with each other through thick n thin but then breaks the promise by cheating....

So rather then suffer the heartache....I will not crossing my fingers on getting into it because hey.....

If i can raise my kids alone even if they have a working dad ...whats the point of having a better half any way?
 



Princess Nereah